Martha . . . came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to do all the work by myself? Tell her then to help me.” But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things; there is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better part, which will not be taken away from her.
Luke 10:40-42
The story of Mary and Martha is one of the most famous in
the Gospels. It is also one of the shortest. Luke tells it in just five verses.
It is a little story with a big lesson; a simple encounter with far reaching
implications.
Martha welcomed Jesus into her home and set about
preparing the meal. Although the picture shows Mary alone with Jesus, it is
more likely that she was sitting with a group of his disciples. While Martha
worked, Mary sat and listened to Jesus’ teaching. In frustration, Martha
interrupted the group to ask Jesus to reprimand her sister. In his answer,
Jesus makes at least four points:
1)
He suggests that a simple meal
will fulfill the requirements of hospitality.
2)
He approves Mary’s choice of
listening to his teaching, and thereby makes clear his belief that a woman
could be a disciple.
3)
By contrasting Mary’s choice with
Martha’s, he questions the traditional expectation that a woman’s place is in
the kitchen.
4)
And finally, he says something
profound about the grace of doing nothing.
Any one of these points is worth a morning’s
meditation, but as I contemplate this on another uncomfortably warm day, I want
to look at the last one. I have to begin with confession, since I tend to be
more Martha than Mary. I am more comfortable with doing than with being. And I
can’t help pointing out that if Martha had been sitting with Mary there would
have been a lot of hungry people at dinner time. It’s also worth noting that Jesus
makes the very opposite point in the story that immediately precedes Mary and
Martha. In Parable of the Good Samaritan, Jesus concludes by telling the lawyer
to “Go and do likewise.” The story of
Mary and Martha is the perfect counterpoint to the story of the Good Samaritan.
Doing nothing, in the sense that we see it in the
story, is not the same as wasting time. We can waste time in all sorts of ways,
many of which are closely tied to the false business that Jesus questions. The
nothing that Mary is doing is not wasting time. It is making space and time to
receive another person. Doing nothing is the empty cup into which Jesus’
teaching is poured.
At the end of the summer, we will ask each other,
“What did you do on vacation?” It is a polite question, intended to show our
interest in each other’s lives. But it also tells us something about ourselves.
It is a “Martha” question, because most of us tend to be more Martha than Mary.
What would it mean, “to sit at Jesus’ feet and
listen to his teaching”? The answers will be as varied as our lives. Bible
study is a good place to begin. But it’s only a beginning. We might find
ourselves listening to flowers, friends, family, sunsets, spouses, books and
music. Some of us are listening to the mountains this summer. Others are
listening to the ocean. As Mary listened to Jesus, she was also listening to
her heart, and hearing there the whispers of the person God was calling her to
be.