When I
was a little boy my mother taught us a bed-time prayer which my sister and I
said every night:
Now I lay me down
to sleep,
I pray the Lord my
soul to keep.
The Lord go with
me through the night,
And keep me safe
till morning light.
In the
more common, older and much scarier version of that prayer, the last two lines
are:
If I should die
before I wake,
I pray the Lord my
soul to take.
I’m glad
Mom gave us the revised version. I can’t imagine teaching a child to say the
original.
The
scarier version dates from a time when little children did sometimes die in the
night from a host of deadly childhood diseases which have mostly been
eliminated over the last century. Today our children are safe from those deadly
diseases because scientists have discovered vaccinations and medicines that are
truly miraculous. Our medical and scientific progress is (I believe) part of
what God is doing in the world. It is part of God’s continuing creation
Today we
have come to expect that for our children, safety is the norm. And death and
disease are rare. At least they are rare among the developed nations of the
world. It is easy for us to forget that in other parts of the world children
continue to die of disease and malnutrition at an alarming rate.
We expect
our children to be safe, and there is nothing wrong with that. All children
ought to be safe. And safety is what every parent wants for his or her child.
But the
biblical promise is not safety. The promise is that God will not leave us. Or
to put it differently, in the context of my bed-time prayer, “safe” meant “safe
in God’s care.”
One of
the most cherished misunderstandings of biblical faith is the doctrine of
“Special Providence.” We want to believe that God loves us more and protects us
more than others. Special Providence promises that God cares for me, and for my
family and loved ones, in a special and unique way. Of course, that is true in
the sense that each of us has a unique experience of God’s care. But as Jesus
said, the sun shines and the rain falls, on the just and the unjust, and God’s
love is there for everyone.
In a radio sermon preached in 1952,
Reinhold Niebuhr said that for many people, believing in God means “that that
we have found a way to the ultimate source and end of life that gives us,
against all the chances and changes of life, some special security and some
special favor.” As an example, he speaks of the prayers “that many a mother
with a boy in Korea
must pray, ‘A thousand at thy side and 10,000 at thy right hand, let no evil come
to my boy.’”
For the mother or father with a
child in danger, that is the most natural prayer in the world and it is the
deepest desire of our hearts. Yet in the end it is impossible. As Niebuhr
explains, “The Christian faith believes that beyond, within and beyond, the
tragedies and the contradictions of history we have laid hold upon a loving
heart, and the proof of whose love, on the one hand, is the impartiality toward
all of his children and, secondly, a mercy which transcends good and evil.”
On Thanksgiving we give thanks for the
Providence of God and the blessings that sustain our life on this fragile
planet. The promise of Christian faith is not that God
will grant us a special exemption from life’s hardships, or give us a special
reward for our virtue, but that at the center of life there is a loving heart,
which will be with us now and forever.