Be subject to one another out of
reverence for Christ. Wives, be subject to your husbands as you are to the Lord. . . .
Husbands should love their wives as they do their own bodies. He who loves his
wife loves himself. For no one ever hates his own body, but he nourishes and
tenderly cares for it, just as Christ does for the church, because we are members of his body. “For this reason a man will leave his
father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two will become one
flesh.” This is a great mystery, and I am applying it to Christ and the
church. Each of you, however, should love his wife as himself, and a
wife should respect her husband.
Ephesians 5:21,28-33
In a recent blog post called
“Religion Lies about Women,” Paula Kirby took issue with a statement by former
President Jimmy Carter that criticized the role of religion in perpectuating
gender discrimination. Her point was that such discrimination was not a
distortion of authentic religious teaching; it is a foundational element.
As evidence, she quotes
Ephesians 5:22-24, “Wives, be subject to your husbands as you are to the Lord. For the husband is the
head of the wife just as Christ is the head of the church, the body of which he
is the Savior. Just as the church
is subject to Christ, so also wives ought to be, in everything, to their
husbands.” She dismisses the claims of many modern Christians that the
admonition to wives is softened by the verses about a husband loving the wife
as he loves his own body. And she skips over the first part of the passage,
which calls on husbands and wives to “be subject to one another.”
The real meaning of the
passage, she says, is clear in the larger context of teachings about slaves
submitting to their masters and children submitting to parents. “Only
religion could attempt to present such a loathsome idea” as slavery, “as though
it were not a blot on the dignity of humankind, and the requirement for women
always to submit to their menfolk is no less repugnant.” She
calls such teaching “cynical” and “wicked.”
Clearly,
such teaching is both cynical and wicked. But what about her larger point, that
the subservience of women is not just an aberration or a misinterpretation; it
is a foundational element of Christianity?
First,
as any serious student of the Bible knows, Ephesians was not written by the
Apostle Paul. Interestingly, one of the ways we know that Paul didn’t write it
is for the very reason that Kirby condemns it. Paul was committed to Jesus’ radically
egalitarian vision of the Kingdom of God, which is at odds with the acceptance
of slavery and the subjection of women found in Ephesians. Even after we add
back the introductory sentence often omitted by critics, that we should “Be subject to one another out of reverence
for Christ,” the Fifth chapter of Ephesians still falls short of the
radically egalitarian nature of the Kingdom of God as proclaimed by Jesus and
by Paul.
Second,
biblical writings on the place of women need to be judged in historical
context. The question is not how biblical views of women compare to our western
democratic vision, but how they compared to the views of other ancient writers and
civilizations. The Bible was written in a patriarchal culture. Given its
historical context, the biblical witness can be read as an empowering document.
Relative to the surrounding culture, the early church elevated the status of
women. If we look at the biblical trajectory, rather than reading it as a
static document, we get a very different picture.
Finally,
we don’t judge the present value of any other realm of human endeavor based on
what people in that same endeavor said or did two or three thousand years ago.
We don’t judge the value of modern science or medicine by what ancient
practitioners said or did thousands of years ago.
This
asymmetrical critique makes sense if the criticism is aimed at biblical
literalists. For those Christians who read the Bible as if it were a textbook of
science, history and sociology, the critique Kirby presents is completely
valid. For the rest of us, it is simply absurd.
Christians
have a lot to answer for over the past two thousand years. We have often been
less than faithful disciples. Even when many Christians were bending the arc of
justice ahead of the historical curve, we were not far enough in front. And
other times, as in the matter of gay rights, many of us have lagged behind. And
we have to answer for those failings. But it is unfair to judge the Christians
of today based on how a critic chooses to interpret a two thousand year old
text.
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