Thirty years ago I mentored a young man who wanted to be a United Methodist minister.
He and his family came to the church looking for Christian education for the kids. They had no real church background. It was all new. They loved the church right away and were soon at the center of church life.
Tom (not his real name) asked lots of questions. He asked about the Bible and about theology and we had some great conversations. He was smart and inquisitive and totally captured by Jesus. He wanted to be a disciple in every possible way.
It was not long before he spoke with me about becoming a candidate for ordained ministry. I remember the excitement we felt when the congregation voted to support and affirm his candidacy.
He left his job and went to seminary full time.
I was convinced that he had the gifts and graces for ministry and that he would be a great pastor.
It soon became clear from our conversations that Tom was becoming much more conservative in his theology and that he was trending toward a much more literalistic reading of the Bible. In my mind, that was less than optimum but I still could see him as an excellent pastor.
But the Conference Board of Ministry did not see him as I did. They turned him down. They continued him as a Local Pastor but they would not recommend him for ordination.
I was outraged.
I made phone calls to everyone I could think of, including the Bishop, to plead his case. I wrote letters and the church wrote letters.
There was plenty of room for Tom, I thought, in the big tent of United Methodist theology.
And I had many conversations about it with friends and colleagues.
One of those conversations imprinted itself in my brain.
My friend and colleague Kent Moorehead listened attentively as I told him what had happened to Tom and how zealously I had advocated on his behalf.
After a short exchange, Kent smiled and told me that he admired my loyalty and my efforts. Then he said this:
“That’s great, Bill, but you do realize that if they are ever in the majority, those people will vote you out in a heartbeat.”
And yesterday in St. Louis that is exactly what they did.
Tom was not there. He drifted around some very conservative churches in our conference and then into other
denominations. But his soul mates were in St. Louis. And by a slim margin they
voted to make United Methodism a rigidly literalistic and judgmental
denomination with no room for dissent.
They chose law over grace.
They put the highest value on
obeying the rules.
They will talk about biblical
authority, but what they mean is that everyone should agree with how they read
the Bible: with narrow judgment focused on the narrow issue of LGBTQIA
exclusion.
That’s it.
Technically, I have not lost my
religion. I can still be a Christian. But I have lost my denomination.
I will not go gently.
I will not comply with the demand
for a loyalty oath.
And I will work for a new and
better church rising from the wreckage.
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