"Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees,
hypocrites! For you tithe mint, dill, and cummin, and have neglected the
weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faith. It is these you
ought to have practiced without neglecting the others. You blind guides! You strain out a
gnat but swallow a camel!”
Matthew 23:23-24
We need to be absolutely clear that
in the Christian Church’s war on LGBTQ persons, our LGBTQ siblings have borne
the overwhelming weight of the suffering. The Traditionalists often claim that
they have had no desire to hurt anyone, but that does not mitigate the pain
they have inflicted.
But there has also been collateral
damage.
And the collateral damage should not
be underestimated. It is wide and deep and it will have lasting effects on the
whole church.
We have trivialized our
understanding of the Bible.
We are straining out gnats and
swallowing camels.
There are seven passages in the
Bible that are typically used to “prove” that the Bible condemns same sex
relationships. They consist of a few hundred words; a small fraction of the
total word count of nearly a million.
And these seven “clobber verses” are
all problematic in one way or another. When Christians act as if an
authoritative biblical witness can be found by lifting these seven passages out
of context we trivialize the whole Bible.
Those who read the Bible this way become
de facto literalists and they make it much more difficult to appreciate the
Bible as a guide to faith. It becomes a rule book rather than an inspiring
narrative. Instead of being a book of big ideas, it becomes a book of isolated
verses.
And those who have tried to counter the
condemnations of the traditionalists have typically joined the debate on those
same terms. We counter one series of passages with another. We cite verses. And
even though we may be using those verses as illustrations rather than as proof
texts, to the secular world it looks like proof-texting.
It is more like a game of biblical
trivia than an honest exploration of the biblical witness. And the result is
that we diminish the meaning of the Scriptures.
We appear to care more about archaic
and anachronistic rules than we do about actual human beings. The
traditionalists may claim to be honoring Scripture. And that may be their
honest intention. But in practical terms, they achieve a high view of Scripture
by making a few verses more important than the people for whom the whole
biblical witness is intended.
We have trivialized the meaning of
sin.
Paul Tillich, one of the greatest
theologians of the twentieth (or any other) century, questioned whether the Christian concept of sin
could survive in the modern world. He argued that for modern people a more
helpful word for sin is separation. In his famous
sermon, “You Are Accepted,” he described sin as a state of separation:
separation from God, from others, and from ourselves. And he defined grace as
the acceptance which overcomes that separation and reunites us with God, with
others, and with ourselves.
If sin was a difficult concept in
the middle of the twentieth century, it is nearly impossible now.
The traditionalist focus on the
“sin” of same sex relationships is spectacularly unhelpful.
In the 21st century we do
not see sex as inherently sinful. Forced sex is sinful. Unfaithfulness we can
see as sinful. But sex between consenting and committed adults is not seen as
sinful. Almost every couple I have married has been living together. And those
that weren’t living together were typically splitting time between houses or
apartments.
Focusing on the sin of same sex
relationships comes off as hypocritical.
But that is not the biggest problem.
When we try to identify sin with
same sex relationships we lose focus on the sins that are central to the
biblical witness: economic and social injustice. The Bible is far more
concerned with how we treat poor people than with our sex lives.
The focus on sex is petty and
hypocritical and it takes away from issues that really should concern us as
Christians.
We have made it look like we do not
believe in science.
The American Psychiatric Association
removed homosexuality as a mental illness from its Diagnostic and Statistical
Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) approximately twenty minutes after the United
Methodist Church declared it to be “incompatible with Christian teaching.”
Those of us who actually believed in
the Wesleyan Quadrilateral (Scripture, Reason, Tradition, and Experience)
assumed it would not be long before the Book of Discipline caught up with the
science and revised our understanding of same sex relationships. But we
underestimated the growing influence of right wing theology and selective
biblical literalism.
We are at odds with the best
insights of science and medicine.
We appear backward, primitive, and
superstitious.
And United Methodists find
themselves lumped together with those who think the world was made in seven
days five thousand years ago, and evolution is a hoax. Not surprisingly, this
costs us credibility. But it goes far beyond sex and biology. The bad science
undermines the biblical witness across a broad spectrum of ethical and moral
issues.
It makes us appear irrelevant.
And then. Finally. We just look
stupid.
Traditionalists can talk about being
counter-cultural, and that could be a good thing. We should be counter-cultural
in our rejection of violence, and greed, and selfishness.
At its core, Christianity is
profoundly counter-cultural.
But this. Is just. Stupid.
As a wise person once observed,
“Just because you are a fool does not mean you are a fool for Christ. Sometimes
you’re just a damned fool.”
Those of us who are still affirming
a faith that is open and accepting might hope that we would not be affected by
the loud condemnations of the traditionalists. But it just doesn’t work that
way.
Those who condemn our LGBTQ siblings
do not speak for the whole church. They certainly do not speak for the whole of
the United Methodist Church.
They do not speak for the Episcopal
Church, the Evangelical Lutheran Church, The Presbyterian Church USA, the
United Church of Christ, the Unitarian Universalists, and others.
And in a broader faith context they
do not speak for Conservative, Reform, or Reconstructionist Judaism.
But to much of the secular world,
and among many casual Christians, those voices of condemnation sound like the
official voice of Christianity. And, in a general sense, condemnation seems
like the singular voice of organized religion.
In the war on our LGBTQ siblings,
Christianity is just collateral damage.
*It is important to read the 23rd
chapter of Matthew within the context of our understanding that Jesus was himself a Pharisee and that what he describes is an internal conflict.
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